Modern longevity

As I write this, there are four generations of my family under one roof. My dad and grandfather are on the back porch with my nephew and sister. My grandmother and mom are in the living room. My cousin is on her way over. This is the story of a modern longevity. Our loved ones are living longer, giving us valuable time, and also the responsibility for their care.

My grandparents are staying in my parents’ home as my grandfather recovers from a heart valve replacement. He is my grandmother’s caregiver, helping her with all activities of daily living and even mobility as she gets around the house. My grandmother had a massive stroke in her early 60s, and has been living with reduced mobility for more than 20 years. We are working to honor their wishes and help them remain independent for as long as possible. There are hiccups along the way, and we are focused on their quality of life and safety as they reach their mid- and late-80s. I talk about this topic at work every day, my mother is an RN/BSN, and it is still a struggle at times.

Our longer lifespans affect not only the older individuals, but the generations that follow. This time is without a doubt a gift, and an opportunity to plan, plan, and plan some more. How do we plan for our eventual care needs? How do we reduce the stress associated with healthcare and caregiving needs? There are no clear cut answers. Each individual and family will have a unique experience. We can help build a network of support around the older individuals and their caregivers. Focus on being proactive, as opposed to reactive, providing abundant value to your clients as they navigate a modern longevity.

Originally posted on LinkedIn Oct. 3, 2020

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